New Approach to Dating

Whether starting out or starting over, dating in today’s world doesn’t need to be a mysterious hit or miss activity.  You CAN set yourself up for success.

Conscious Dating is the new approach to dating success

Have you chosen dating partners (or a life partner) for any of the following reasons?

• By default – going along with what showed up instead of choosing what you wanted
• By the holes in your soul – (subconsciously) driven to heal or fill childhood needs
• To make loneliness go away
• Interpreting powerful emotions as love
• Financial insecurity
• Sex
• Looking for someone to do life for you because you didn’t know how to do it on your own
• Running away from a bad relationship or family dynamic
• Inability or unwillingness to delay gratification and wait for what you really want
• Fear of being alone – especially if you’re getting older

All of those ways of partnering (and there are probably more) would be considered un-conscious dating and if taken into a committed relationship will end in disaster.  So what to do instead???

Conscious dating begins with knowing yourself first

Once you know yourself you are in a position to find someone who matches you in key areas.  If you don’t know who you are, you can’t find your match.  That’s like looking for the match to a pair of shoes you haven’t seen yet.